I was folding laundry, listening to Oprah’s Super Soul Sunday interview with
Miguel Angel Ruiz, author of The Four Agreements. He was so charming and humble, and when I glanced at the television screen, I had a laugh out loud moment, because his interview was subtitled! I guess the producers felt his Mexican accent was too difficult for viewers to understand otherwise.
The reason I found this funny was because my father had an even thicker accent, yet he never had a problem making himself understood. It is times like these when I miss him most, (deceased now 15 years). I believe it is the little things like that which identify our humanity and make us memorable to others.
My father was a hard working man who gave his children a strong work ethic, which we, in turn, have passed on to our kids.
For an ‘uneducated’ man (schoolwise), he had a wisdom that surpassed knowledge and a wicked sense of humor- which he also passed on to his kids…and we, in turn, have now passed this on to ours, as well. (Apologies in advance if you run into any of us in the real world. You have been warned)
While life was not always easy being raised a girl by strict, old-fashioned, Mexican parents, it did offer some life lessons that could not have been learned any other way.
Here are some of my father’s favorite gems:
~ Ask me no questions, I’ll tell you no lies
~ There is a time for everything
~ I am always right, even if I am wrong, I am right
~ Money follows money
~ The grass is NOT always greener on the other side
~ Life isn’t fair
~ Let your conscience be your guide (as long as it was what his conscience wanted, we were ok)
~ The good Lord giveth, and the good Lord taketh away
So what would I tell him if he was here with me now?
I would start with, Dad, (aka, Ruben, Mr Ruben, or Don Ruven),
Happy Father’s Day
I’ve missed you….
and you were right… about everything